Honestly, I have not been in a proper relationship for the past 2 years – I felt almost like a lesbian. For the past 2 years , I was approached by a female gym instructor which was really odd, went out with this Malay dude for about 3 months or so which I honestly rather not blog about –AND the most recent one – I went out with this Chinese guy! Yes, that’s the first ever Chinese guy I went out with!! **I’m soo proud** the truth is, it actually went pretty well – movie – desert – dinner. But he was quite boring and I wasn’t showing any signs cos I wasn’t interested, but I enjoyed his company and thinks he could be a nice friend until he ruin it. Here’s the last 10 mins of our so-called date went;
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Eric.........: Hey Jasmine, do you mind me asking you a personal question ?
Jasmine : Well, you’ve asked quite a number of personal questions, I doubt this would make any difference, so bring it on!
Eric.........: Please don’t take it the wrong way if I sound funny.
Jasmine : Ok…*eye brows raised*
Eric.........: Hmm…it doesn’t mean anything ok? I’m just curious – please don’t misunderstand me
Jasmine : Ooooo……kkkk…… *Getting impatient*
Eric.........: Are you NOT interested in guys?
Jasmine : Are you implying that I’m interested in girls?!
Eric.........: No…Yes….but No! I’m just curious.
Jasmine : Why would you say that?
Eric.........: I don’t know..you’re very independent, you don’t seem to like guys, you’re always out and about, you dont talk about guys…..
Jasmine : Hmm……No, I don't think I am a lesbian.....yet~
Eric.........: Oh ok, sorry… *Gets the bill *
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WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH AN INDEPENDENT GIRL WHO ENJOYS THE COMPANY OF HER GIRLFRIENDS? Does that really make one a Lesbian???
Im confused. Is this a belated entry/post?
ReplyDeleteI think years ago at the begining of dating history. The first guy to be maybe not rejected but you know - must have walked home thinking that the woman was gay ro something.
I think its a imature thought to think that a independent, sucessful woman doesnt mean that she is gay. Although I think all women are born BI. Who cares if the women spends a lot of time with her female friends. That doesnt mean anything.
In his deffence though- these days there seems to be more and more lesbians comeing out. Everywhere you look - there they are. So I dont count it out for anyone.